Are we meant for each other?

Am here to share a meaningful article which i read from Jasmine's blog!

"I feel like every relationship goes through stages

First, you have the honeymoon stage. Everything seems so perfect, almost too perfect. You always want to be with this person, calls and texts are constant. You can't imagine yourself without him, although your time together has been spared.

Next, you go through the questioning and fighting stage. Is this person right for me after all? Is this going to work out? You start to fight about how he doesn't communicate with you as much as he used to. He doesn't try to "woo" you anymore because he believes he already had you. This is really where couples make it or break it. Some people just can't stand that there isn't that firing spark anymore. Sure, you feel connected. Just not how it was in the very beginning of the relationship.

Next step is "finding the perfect medium". If you overcame all the fights, the days where you'd barely talk...you eventually find a good in between in your relationship. He starts to offer to come see you more, but still make time for his friends. Just not as much friend time as it was before. The text and calls aren't constant, yet they do exist again. Everything just seems right. You know him well, he becomes your best friend. You both experienced having your "own life" while still being with each other. You know you can depend on him, as he does as well with you.

This cycle repeats, often. So if you're upset thinking that the honeymoon phase will not cease to exist again, you're wrong. Relationships go through this so they can mature, so they are put to the test and whatever couple makes it out alive is really meant to be. If you don't get through this tests, then he isn't the one. Everyone was made for someone, and I will always believe that. I don't necessarily think things always happen for a reason, but in all in all you have someone out there meant for you. It's all a matter of finding them.

What stage are you in right now?"

What stage are we in rigt now?

I admitted that we went thru the fighting stage for quite a long period

Currently we are in the stage of "finding perfect medium"

However, people never get to be satisfied, and i am one of them!

We had a very bad conversation just now before you off to bed

You were throwing temper on me (The percentage u getting mad cuz of me is 10%)

U always throw ur temper on ur bro and sis but not me! You seldom talk loudly to me!

So, i wonder whether my words hurt you!

Why cant u treat them just like how you treat me?

The moment u hung up my call, It hurts me!

There is a very long way ahead for us to walk thru tgt

I pray for us and for YOU!

"Dont worry be happy"

:)

I had so much fun in Dec
somehow my Jan is not exciting at all
I had dull and lonely life
Save me out from de sadness and loneliness plssssssssssss!

Happy New Year
It's 2010, a great year ahead!
Looking back to year 2009, it is an interesting year for me
Have a good start peeps!
Muak (:

Hey m back again after so longI got alots to write down but i dunno where to start with

I have been back for almost 3 weeks

Not hanging out much as i feel tat im getting farer with my frens

But stil i hope we can hang out tgt happily and talk non stop like before

Like YL said "PP stream is our best frens"

Been watching the Korea Show "We got married" recently

The reason i started this show is because of Kim Hyun Joong

He is married wid Huang Bo and acted as a married couple!

They are lovely and he is so cute

But every of dem will go to the end and leave each other someday as they are acting as married couple to entertain the public.

The most excited outing is Viv 21st bday celebration and the moment i spent wid family and boyfie

The most regret things that happend during bday celebration is my camera got no batt and none of them brought camera..sigh sigh sigh! we take not much photos!! Btw i hope she likes the earing we bought her which costs us RM100++ (can see our sincerity? lol)

I am looking forward for this week gathering as i have not seen many of them for ages!

I got lotsa activities in Dec like Weisern's bday celebration, Malacca trip,Kukup trip wid family, KL-genting trip and the one i hope for very long- Penang Ipog trip!

I sincerely wish tat i can spent my holidays happily not just with PP stream! =D

Also,i always hope tat i can stay here forever and dun go back to Aus but i kno it is impossible and time is passing thru me!

I hope that we got some time for ourselves but not always for other people

U kno what m i saying.. And i wish i can see the changes! =)

Why our timing always not match one?
I should feel happy tat im going malacca soon but im going to miss the gathering again..
sigh.. i miss them so much!
=((((((((((((

I found my s.m.i.l.e back

I hope it lasts long with me

Thx baby xiaofen (:

STUDY STUDY

been studying + FB-ing + drama-ing

i miss home and YOU guys

Mwahs

Thanks Guys =)
I can feel the almighty love from you all
I felt much better now
It's time for me to fight for exam
Azaaaaaaaa azaaaaaaa ~~~
Cheers!




I am finding back my s.m.i.l.e
Whoever got it,please give it back to me
Tehhee :)

Dont simply judge people
Especially, ME
You are not me, you know nothing about me
I am who i am
I got no responsibility to explain to you of what i did
Darn pissed off by those words now
=S

I just dont have the mood to start my 30% research assignment
I dislike myself of slacking like this
Screwed up my AFA test
I felt damn guilty towards my parent who spend lotsa money on me
Perhaps i had enough of those assignments n tests which torturing me badly in the past 1 month
I had enough..
I doubt my body can stand for how long..
Being sicked for many days
Had de most serious headache on Thurs
mama, i wana score well to made u proud but i m too tired and got no strength to continue anymore

3000 words assignment is waving to me
Yet, i dont even start my research on it
Damn.. i need time and strength
=(

AFA test done!
But de paper was so hard
:(
Plsss let me passsss!

I left one more assgn which due on tues!
Aza azaaaa Xiaowei!
Ohyea,going to visit Tulip farm n Puffing Billy this sunday!
Hoorayyyyyyyyy!
XD

Thx WuhTerng for lending me your ears!
Hahaha.. Really appreciate tat i have you by my side :)
Telling u the same story everytime.. Haiz..
I dunno wat to do.. dunno wat to say also..
The same things keep coming to me..
Like wat u said, dun think too much..
Let everything go by itself..
A great afternoon with not so much worries but a bad night with lots of tears!
Night everyone
Tataaaaa =)

很累

不被了解的心情

你们曾有过吗？

我现在就有着这样的感觉

难受的当儿，我还必须继续我的assignments

做人真难

累累累

Learn to be contented :)

Again, i have been busy wid my assignments

three left.. after 22nd Sept, den i will free from all these shits..

Final exam comes right after this though.. FML..

Had a serious mood swing recently

but it's getting better now

Cause my mind has straighten out..^^

Forcing ppl to do sth that he/she doesnt like is a very selfish action

And i have been doing this to someone that is very important to me

I realised that although he is doing all these for me,but he doesnt really feel happy

When i read thru this sentence

"If you him/she, then you should let her/him to do sth that she/he likes, not asking him/her to change for you"

Then i realised that my loved one been changing his way of living to please me

I always being silly n childish by asking him to live in my way

Yet, now i know letting him to live in his own way is the best for him

Demanding and greedy always make us lost ourselves

Now,i had learnt to be contented

Family, Relationship, Sistership, Frenship, Girls..

God been treating me nicely
I cherish :)

I miss everyone of YOU very much

mama, Happy birthday in advance!

I love you the most! =)

Change my blog to the new version instead of html version

Cuz i juz wan it to be as simple as it can

♥

Give & Take

Even thou we are million Km apart, but we still managed to show our love to each other

Boy,i miss u :)

ILY

=)

Thx YOU, Yea, YOU who are reading my blog now

Thx Ken

Thx KY

Thx Eve twinie

Thx BOY

Thx YOU so much

:)

I feel so nice n happy now

Not bcus of finishing assgn

But i knew tat there are lotsa ppl concern bout me

Teehee =)

Oh yea,i will go Sydney wid Ming gege during this mid sem break

Thou de flight tic is so exp,but we stil ngek ngek wan go lorh

haha..

Weisern, next yr is Perth turn!

*winkk*

:)

Tears keep rolling down from my eyes

My second time of crying since i came here

First time is because of my boy

This time is because of the stress coming to me

Studying at Melbourne aint easy at all

Caufield students are way smarter n hardworking than Msian students

Most of them are well prepared for tutorial

Unlike me who seldom do tutorial hw

Assignments are coming to me non non stoppp

I cant stand it anymore

Lecturer here requires better works,better performance and higher standard from students

Oh please...im no one but juz a human..

Stop demanding from meeeeeeeeeeee!

Let me goo!!

Plan to Gold Coast n Sydney canceled

As none of us have booked the flight ticket

And the price of tic is keep increasing..

I think i will change my plan to Yarra Valley n Grampian Park..

Perhaps end of semester den only go Gold Coast..

Everyhting gotta wait til my exam timetable comes out den only decide

*continue ur worksss!*said lil devil

seeee.. i gotta continue with my works d..

TATA :)

Love. Life. Smile

I miss YOU so much

XOXO

=)

Quote to share:

-The way to happiness:

keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry.

Live simply, expect little, give much.

Fill your life with love.

Scatter sunshine.

Forget self, think of others

:-)

Remember...

Happiness doesn't depend upon who you are or what you have;

it depends solely on what you think!

I am doing fine =)

I have been coming over here for almost 1 month

Time dont really flies LOL

Time passes very slow

I have been for quite alot of places

Till now,i still miss the moment i spent tgt wid weisern ada n baoli

It's really hard for me to meet up wid Sweetie as he had plenty of plans wid Ada they all

Thou the time we spent tgt is quite short,but i enjoyed quite alot! Had lotsa fun tat day!

Photos taken at San Churro..
Nice Churross + so so hot chocolate..
i wana go there again wid u guys! (perhaps next yr)
*Sweetie,i will plan for my trip to perth asap..(:



hmm..the next thing is about the parcel i got from my boyfriend
He actually told me tat he posted me a card instead of parcel
So,when i saw the person took this damn big parcel n appeared in front of me,i was SUPER shocked n smilling happily non stop!!
Homaigat!! I carried tat super big parcel taking train n walked back home!
Anyway,THANKS boyfriend for this SUPER huge surprise!

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Inside got a pink scarf, pink bottle, xiao xiong bing gan, two boxes of choco, two keeping warm plaster n photo of US
I was keep complaining to him tat Aus is very cold..I think this is de reason he got me de scarf n de keeping warm plaster..
I love it, baby !!
Also,not forgot to mention the huge lolipop on my study table
I got it from my besties+hsemates before i departed from the airport
So sweet of them tooo!! :)

I actually plan to update the trip to Mt.Buller but photos are not wid me!

Shopping spree wid ww on this coming Sat!!! =D